You can have a Gold Star Family Member designation printed on your New Jersey driver licence or probationary licence if you are the family member of a service member who died while serving on active duty. Eligible family includes a spouse, domestic partner or civil union partner, a parent, legal guardian or other legal custodian, a sibling, or a child, including whole, half, step and adoptive relatives.
Contact your nearest New Jersey Motor Vehicle Commission licensing office to apply.
A DD1300 report of casualty or DD2064 certificate of death overseas, and official documentation proving your family relationship to the deceased service member.