Family members of a service member who died while serving on active duty can get a Nebraska Gold Star Family plate. Eligible family includes the surviving spouse whether or not they have remarried, an ancestor including a stepparent, a descendant including a stepchild, a foster parent or person in loco parentis, and a sibling.
Register on the NDVA Military and Veterans' Registry, then submit the DMV Application for Gold Star Family License Plates with your casualty documentation and proof of your relationship.
The service member's casualty documentation or death certificate, and proof of your relationship to them such as a marriage or birth certificate.